Same abduction every time. i can feel when they are coming. theyâ€™ve been coming to me since age six. sometimes a silver/blue scar pelvis area. i sense something. look outside or go outside. bright flash of light. missing time from 3-8 hours. when i return i feel as if iâ€™m being gently dropped in bed. lights will be on that were off. communication through though. emotional sight.