UFO Sighting in West Allis, Wisconsin on July 31st 1991 – fiance ufo contact and friend of father ufo contact

My fiance told me of her ufo contact before she died in 2012 and a friend of my dad told both of its of his ufo encounter as well. Sandi, my fianc�� told me me of her encounter and their conversation with her. The conversation was that the ufo had come because they had become too advanced amd lady their essence of their self. Sandi was interviewed by Neil Hardeman of Channel 3 of Madison, WI. The interview was never aired. My dad's friend Earl told is of his ufo encounter. He said the reason they selected him was due to his ear lobes as the ufo's felt earlobes are important. My dad's friend did not report this as he worked for a local police force and was in the national guard at the time. Sandi and my dad's friend died quickly of cancer. Sandi in 2012, healthy to stage 4 to death in 2 months. I did not witness this; I'm relating whay i was told by Sandi amd a friend of my dad (to my dad and myself)